I need help. My 85 year old mother resides with me and my family. She has early signs of dementia and often times gets frustrated and lashes out at my family. I’m mom’s full-time caretaker, I manage the house and tend to my kids. My siblings are out of state so mom’s daily needs are dropped in my lap. I love my mom dearly but I am exhausted and need help. -Sue, Westbury, NY
I’m so glad you are reaching out. Caring for an elderly parent is difficult and very demanding. First and foremost, you need to take care of yourself. You’re no good to your mom and your family if you’re running yourself ragged. Here are five tips to help:
- Maintain your physical health by eating a well balanced diet and exercising daily. For some great tips take a look at 25 Vitamin-Rich Foods You Should Be Eating The Best 15 Minute Workout Without a Gym.
- Attend a support group for caregivers. The Family Service League is just one of the many organizations that provide group or individual counseling to help caregivers manage their stress.