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Friday, April 26th, 2013

Dear Maryellen…
My mother is in her mid-eighties and has been getting progressively more forgetful, but my father and mother just won’t admit it. My mother is currently going through some diagnostic testing. Our situation is very worrisome from a lot of vantage points. Can you tell me if Alzheimer’s is hereditary?
- Joan K. from Greenwich, Conn.
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Tuesday, April 16th, 2013

Engaging in creative activity is extremely beneficial for people of all ages, not just the young. Research shows both the acts of creative expression and social interaction are vital to the mental and physical well being of senior citizens. According to Gene D. Cohen, MD, PhD of the Center for Aging, Health & Humanities, George Washington University, “Expressing ourselves can actually improve health, both mentally and physically.”
Dr. Cohen’s research claims the following benefits:
- Creativity reinforces essential connections between brain cells, including those responsible for memory.
- Creativity strengthens morale. It alters the way we respond to problems and sometimes allows us to transcend them. Keeping a fresh perspective makes us emotionally resilient.
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Friday, April 5th, 2013

Dear Maryellen…
My father lives in Boca Raton, Florida and was recently ill. Until now, he has been in pretty good shape for his 85 years. He is living with a few chronic ailments, such as Diabetes and COPD, and, from time to time he has an episode and has to pay attention to one condition or another. I’ve had some midnight calls from him lately that have caused me a lot of worry and him a lot of stress. It’s impossible for me to get down to him fast enough in an emergency. Are there any resources you would recommend to help me care for my dad long distance?
– Sandra, Floral Park, NY
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Tuesday, February 19th, 2013
Dear Readers,
Suggesting Assisted Living to your senior loved one can be very difficult. Perhaps you’ve been avoiding the conversation. The Bristal’s TheTalk covers questions and concerns that your loved one might have and can be used as a guide for your discussion.
Regards,
Maryellen

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Friday, January 25th, 2013
Dear Readers,
Ballroom dancing has become very popular with the show “Dancing with the Stars”. What was once social dancing for the privileged is now mainstream. The dramatic dance moves utilizes major muscle groups and gets the heart pumping. Not only is it a great form of physical exercise, it also does wonders for the brain.
According to neurologist, Dr. James E. Sander, studies show ballroom dancing is as good as or better than crossword puzzles to ward off memory loss. Take a look for yourself.

To learn more go to BBC News.
Regards,
Maryellen
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Wednesday, December 19th, 2012

Dear Readers,
The holiday season is a time for families and friends to get together and enjoy each other’s company. However, for some senior citizens holiday gathering can be stressful, confusing and depressing if their physical, mental and emotional needs are not taken into consideration. CareLink.org offers the following tips to make holiday gatherings easier for you and your senior loved one:
- Keep family events short. Sometimes it takes a great deal of energy for some senior citizens to get dressed for a family event. By the time they get there, they are already exhausted.
- Don’t give your senior too many options at mealtime especially if they have dementia. This could cause them to get very confused and uneasy. Simply fill their plate with three or four dishes you think they will like most.
- Do not ask questions like “Do you know who I am?” Older adults with dementia often don’t know who you are, so don’t put them on the spot and embarrass them.
- If you senior has difficulty walking or has balance problems remove slippery throw rugs and items that could present barriers.
- Help them reflect on their past with simple activities like looking at old picture albums, singing a song, or recounting a family story.
Take the time to enjoy the senior in your life. They have so much to offer. I wish you and your family a very happy holiday season.
Best Regards,
Maryellen
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Tuesday, November 13th, 2012
Dear Maryellen…
I’m very concerned about my 85 year old father. He’s starting to show early signs of dementia and still drives. He enjoys getting out of the house and running errands but he insists on driving himself. I’m afraid he’s going to get into an accident.
-Elizabeth, Holbrook, NY
Dear Elizabeth,
You’re not alone in worrying about your father’s safety behind the wheel. A recent survey shows almost one in ten adults have this same concern. The first step is assessment. The Department of Motor Vehicle recommends taking a ride with your father and watching for the following:
- Did he wear his seatbelt?
- Was he sitting the at least 10 inches from the steering wheel?
- Were the mirrors adjusted properly?
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Friday, November 9th, 2012
Dear Bloggers,
I’d like to thank one of our residents, Terry DeSimone, for letting us know what a great job we did before, during, and after Hurricane Sandy. Your kind words are appreciated.
Warmest Regards,
Maryellen
Dear Maryellen…
I would like to take this opportunity to let you know how wonderful the staff at The Bristal at Massapequa were before, during and after Hurricane Sandy. During the crisis, it was comforting to see that all Directors were available for our safety and security. Astrit, our Maintenance Director did an incredible job running power from the generator to where it was needed most. The kitchen and dining room staff were able to serve hot, satisfying meals as if they were fully functioning. Maria, in activities, kept us entertained and distracted us from the devastating effects Hurricane Sandy brought to the rest of the area.
The Wellness staff was around and available 24/7 and made us feel comfortable and secure. They tirelessly made rounds day and night. The housekeepers did not miss a beat and were very attentive to each of us here.
Although there were many staff members personally affected by the aftermath of this storm, the day-to-day operations continued as flawlessly as possible. Everyone pitched in to make sure that we as residents were warm, comfortable, happy and most importantly, safe.
Thank you!
Sincerely,
Mrs. Terry DeSimone
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